Unlike men, commitment and love are two things that are very important to women and for them, these are the two pillars that are at the base of every strong relationship.
A woman will give her all, emotionally and physically if she feels love and loyalty from her man.
For men however things are much different. After all men and women are totally different creatures and function in different manners.
For men sex is perhaps more important than it is for women and they surely takes things like love and relationships in a much lighter manner than women do.
At the same time it does not mean that men do not have the ability to fall in love or to commit to being a relationship with a woman.
On the contrary when made to feel in a certain way they are more than eager to exhibit those tendencies.
When a guy realizes sub consciously that the situation is ideal, exciting and comfortable at the same time, he will commit to you.
It’s just that men have specifically innate needs that need to be satisfied before they feel compelled to get into a serious relationship.
How to get him to fall in love with you?
While theoretically this all make sense and as a smart woman you probably know this to be true.
The struggle for you is how to make it happen.
How to get him to fall in love with me?
Surely you must have spent quite a lot of time pondering over it.
Is the really something you can do to make him fall head over heels in love with you?
Most women take this to mean that they should appeal to the guy in a physical manner. After all men absolutely love sex right?
As the popular opinion goes, men only think from their penis. Following this advice, many women will simply start dressing up nicer or sexier, put on heels, get a new hairdo and do a little makeup to appear physically attractive to a man.
While that indeed can engage his desire, it will not be long term. That’s not to say that you should not do such things.
However this is not a standalone solution and you need to pair it up with satisfying his emotional side too, for it to work.
What can you do then?
Are there any tricks that tell you how to get him to fall in love? Fortunately there are and we will take a look at them now.
Make him uncomfortable
If you first response is ‘wtf’ then I do not blame you. That is the reaction most people have.
How can you make a man fall in love with you by making him uncomfortable? Relax.
We are not saying you should pin prick him or make him feel lesser than yourself, but it is a suggestion that asks for arousing in him a sense of positive discomfort.
Apart from their longing for sex, if there is one thing we can say for certain about men is that they want things that they cannot have.
If you are strutting in front him in sexy clothes, trying to please him and make him like you, then he knows that he has you wrapped around his finger.
On the other hand, if you suddenly act distant, uninterested or non communicative, alarm bells will ring in his head and he will come running back to you.
This is not to say that you must always play hard to get as it will discourage him and in no time he would’ve moved on leaving you all by yourself.
The trick here to play the carrot and stick game with him.
Dangle the carrot but pull it back now and then. 90% of god times mixed with 10% of ‘discomfort’ will do the trick.
Work to re-frame what he thinks of you
A man sees you for what you portray.
While every one else you know might think you are serious and boring, but by portraying yourself in a different way, you can completely reframe what a man thinks of you.
So much so that he won’t believe others when they tell him otherwise.
Does not matter if you do not think you are as good looking, or smart or funny- as long as you give the impression that you are, he will love you for it.
Ever seen a hot guy with an average woman- you can bet that there was some strong reframing at work there.
Let him play on his masculine side
If there is one thing that guys like is to take care of women. They will open jars with tight lids, lift heavy things, lend you their jackets when it is cold and act over protective when they really like you.
They love it coz in their mind, not only are they doing something good for you, it also makes them feel more masculine or more macho and as we all know, which guy doesn’t like to feel that.
They have a natural instinct to protect in their genes and you must let him carry that instinct out.
Instead of stopping him from doing such things coz you are a ‘strong independent woman’, let him play the big guy and soon he will invest himself more and more in doing such things for you and in the process, he will get more attached to you and to having you around him.
He’s actually going to feel pleasure in helping you and in having you besides him always. This is how to get him to fall in love with you.
Now the advice given above surely makes sense to you and by now a smart woman like you must have a good grasp on the concepts mentioned above.
How do you actually execute them?
How do you practice these things in a real life scenario?
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